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One thing I have learned from high school is that if you don't surround yourself with people that make you happy, you will be miserable. It is often the key to your success. Try thinking about constantly worrying about if your friends are telling your secrets or talking behind your back, always worrying that you wont get invited somewhere, and voluntarily sitting at home when some bitch starts a little drama. The things high school girls put themselves and others through are truly rediculous. It takes a long time to reach a point of comfortability with yourself. Let's face it, everyone is weird, absolutely no one is how we say "normal". Normal doesn't exist and people who think it does give me any example and explain to me what makes that normal.Personally I think if everyone was normal nothing good or bad would ever happen. We would all just sit around and do normal things, again not really sure what those are, but they do not sound like much fun at all. If I could change one thing about high school it would be that freshman and sophomore year I cared too much about what people thought and I would do what everyone else was doing because that seemed like the easiestd way to avoid being singles out. What I have learned is that even though it may come with more stress being yourself is natural and comes with ease. Everyone loves a person that is so comfortable with themself that they don't even care what other people think. Those are the kind of people that are leaders. It takes confidence in yourself and your ideas, even if you don't believe them if you can convince somebody else is when you truly know you are a leader. People who do great things do not follow the pack, after all somebody has to follow you to make you a leader. In fact it is often the people that go silently and do their own thing that move mountains. They do not feel the need to be flashy or make a big deal they just go along on their own way not concerned with what everyone else is crazy over, or the latest fad. People who do what makes them happy is ultimately the key to happiness itself. Let me tell you happy people attract other positive people. That may just be the easiest way to ensure yourself that you have surrounded yourself with people that make you happy.